As an organisation that has both been in the forefront of the HeforShe movement and also championing women on boards through our association with the 30% Club, we have been watching closely the recent shenanigans at Uber that led to David Bonderman resigning from the board for an ill-judged remark that stereotyped women as talking too much.
Ironically, it was at a company-wide meeting to unveil Uber’s plan for overhauling its corporate culture to make it more inclusive to women that Mr Bonderman, co-founder of the private equity firm TPG, interrupted fellow Uber board member Arianna Huffington who was discussing research showing the benefits of board gender diversity, to interject that having more women on the board just meant more talking.
You might think OK, this was a harmless (if tasteless) joke. But for two compelling accounts of why Mr Bonderman HAD to resign – read Tabatha Southey’s piece in Canada’s Globe and Mail and Heidi Stevens in The Chicago Tribune.
As Ms Southey said, “More women does mean more talking….. because we have to repeat ourselves multiple times to be heard and start over every time we get interrupted... In the main, women don’t talk more than men, as several studies have shown. They are, however, interrupted more.”
At TWF, we think there should be room for humour and women and men not taking themselves too seriously – but we believe it’s inappropriate for men to interrupt a female colleague to make a joke about them during a formal presentation. We also agree with Heidi Stevens that it's the throwaway comments that "drip feed" the stereotypes and prevent young girls and women thinking they can do supposed "men’s'" jobs. As Ms Stevens says, "There is nothing funny about women not achieving their potential and not being paid or promoted fairly when they do break through and succeed at work. Or still being judged by their attractiveness (or lack of)." Yes – at TWF, we have a sense of humour - but there are some things that just aren't funny.
As always, we would love to hear from you with your views. Please write to me at sumei.thompson@twfhk.org.